I have questioned for many years how I could know if a person was going to go to heaven when they died. I got a huge variation of answers. I feel like all this time, I was looking for a "professional" to explain it to me and tell me that if a person said the sinner's prayer they were guaranteed a place in heaven. I have been burdened for many years about the salvation of several of my family members and have prayed for them through the years. I have pleaded with several to truly evaluate where they stand with God. As I have begun to search the Scriptures myself, I find that there are many that teach us how to know who belongs to Christ and will be His in Heaven. It was there all the time, I just hadn't looked. Shamefully, many Christians will have this same experience as we are taught to look to those who know more than us, they have all the answers. But we are to be like the Bereans ( Acts 17:11 Now the Bereans were of more noble character than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true) and search the Scriptures for ourselves and see what the Lord has taught us. We can know them by their fruit.
5"I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. 6If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. 7If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. 8This is to my Father's glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.
9"As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. 11I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. 12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command. 15I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 16You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit—fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. 17This is my command: Love each other.